WHY THE LAW OF ATTRACTION ISN’T WORKING FOR YOU | How to Fix It!

WHY THE LAW OF ATTRACTION ISN’T WORKING FOR YOU | How to Fix It!


If you’re struggling to manifest
something no matter how many steps you follow, no matter how hard you try, then
this video is for you! It’s all about why the law of attraction isn’t working for
you and how to fix it. If you’re new to my channel my name is Mary Kate and I’m a
mindset coach, manifesting expert, and founder of MKmagicmindset.com where
you can find tons of Law of Attraction resources and courses on manifesting. So
let’s get into it! Why does it feel like sometimes things manifest into your life
at record speed and then other times it feels like no matter how hard you try
you can’t manifest a certain thing? Why is that? What makes it different? It’s not
that one thing was easy and the other thing is hard. It”s just there’s certain
things that you might be missing in your manifesting process when using the law
of attraction. I first want to start off by saying that the law of attraction is
a law! It works a hundred percent of the time if you know what you’re doing and
know how to use it. It doesn’t discriminate, it doesn’t decide that you
were a good person today and so you get to manifest this or you’re a bad person
yesterday and you won’t get to manifest this. It is a law that is working at all
times, whether you realize it or not! A lot of the times you’re just doing
things that are standing in your own way and I’ll get into all of those in just a
minute, but I just wanted to preface this by saying the law of attraction is a
hundred percent real, it’s a law and it’s working in your life right now
whether you realize it or not and it doesn’t discriminate at all! It doesn’t
mean you’ll manifest something quicker if you think harder and try harder and
work harder. That’s not how it works. It is constantly working in your life and
there’s certain conditions that have to happen in order for something to
manifest. You can’t just outsmart the law of attraction if one of these things
that I’m about to talk about isn’t working then you’re not going to be able
to manifest what you want into your life. There are so many factors that go into a
manifesting process, but I think one of the biggest things is your mindset. I
know it sounds really simple “think happy thoughts and happy things will come to
you,” but there’s actually a lot more that goes into it. A big part of your mindset
is your belief system your belief system is determined by so many different
things and a lot of the reason that you have the beliefs you have right now are
things that were actually programmed during your early childhood. So if you
grew up in a household where money was tight your parents
complained about money, then there’s probably a lot of negative beliefs about
money that have slipped into your subconscious mind and they’re part of
your belief system. So you first have to start off with where your beliefs are
about whatever you’re trying to manifest. if you’re trying to manifest a lot of
money but you have beliefs that there’s not enough money, or your struggle with
money, then it’s not going to manifest into your life. You have to start with
where your beliefs are. Whatever you’re trying to manifest, you have to have a
strong core belief about and one of the best ways to find out what your belief
system is about what you’re trying to manifest is to take a journal and write
down all of your thoughts and beliefs. Anything and everything that comes to
your mind whenever you’re thinking about what it is you’re trying to manifest.
Write down every single thought and belief and from there figure out how you
can heal and fix those beliefs and turn it around so that you have a more
positive belief and outlook about what you’re trying to create. Once you’ve
gotten clear on your beliefs you need to be so sure that you’re going to manifest
what it is that you want that you have complete unwavering faith that it’s
already yours. I talked about this and one of my other videos on how to
surrender, but you wouldn’t ask for something you already have. Think of it
that way. Your belief has to be so strong that what you are trying to create is
already yours. You have to believe without a doubt that it’s going to be
part of your life that it is a part of your life. If you have any questions
whatsoever it’s not gonna happen for you. If you want $50,000 think from and act
like the version of yourself that already has it. You have to have complete
unwavering faith that it’s yours. I get so many DMS in my inbox saying I’ve been
trying to manifest this, and I’ve done this, and I’ve worked on my belief system
and it still hasn’t manifested. If you’re still wondering why something hasn’t
manifested, then your belief system just isn’t strong enough yet. You shouldn’t be
looking for where it is and why it isn’t here yet.
You should already know that it’s already yours and that’s it. You just
have to have complete faith that what you want is already yours. Unwavering
faith! And if you’re still on the lookout and wondering why it’s not here yet then
you don’t have faith yet because you wouldn’t be looking for something that
you already have. Claim it as yours and be done with it. Believe it and be done with it. This brings me to another thing that might be holding you back when you’re
trying to manifest something and that is focusing on lack. A lot of the times
people who are focusing on lack don’t even realize they’re doing it. It’s one
of those things that you might not even realize it’s happening until you look
back and realize that’s what you were doing. Let me just share with you a
really quick example of something I came across recently, I have an Abundance
Programming Meditation on my channel if you want to check it out, it’s a 20
minute meditation and it’ll bring you financial miracles in one week.
I’ll leave a link up here and a link down below, but in one of the comments
somebody had told me they were listening for a week and nothing happened for them
and I immediately replied to their comment and said that in order for it to
work you had to have unwavering faith that it’s already yours and you can’t
focus on it not being there yet. So he was focusing on lack without even
realizing it, and right after I commented that he sent me another message saying
as he was typing that message he received an unexpected financial miracle.
So if you’re focusing on lack you are standing in your own way. If you’re
focusing on the result of it not being there yet you’re standing in your own
way, so you can’t focus on lack. Sometimes you don’t even realize you’re focusing
on lack but if you’re super focused on the fact that what you want to manifest
hasn’t happened yet you are focusing on lack and you need to turn around your
belief system and claim it as yours. Believe that it’s already yours stop
looking for it to come because that’s only preventing it from coming into your
life! Does that make sense? If you expect it to come, it will come. If
you’re looking for evidence of when it’s gonna come, and how and everything,
you’re gonna block it. Focusing on lack is such a big issue that I see with some
of my clients, and a lot of people that message me and it’s one of those things
that you consciously have to work on a lot of the times you really don’t even
realize that you’re focusing on lack but when you’re looking for evidence of it
happening and evidence of it not being there yet that’s focusing on lack
another really important factor when it comes to manifesting and the law of
attraction is timing there is such a thing as divine timing and a lot of the
times when you’re trying to manifest something you wanted that record speed
we live in an era where everything is lightening instant fast you can post
something on Instagram you can order groceries to your door in an
or you can Amazon Prime two-day delivery everything is instant gratification so
because we’re so programmed that way now a lot of the times when you’re trying to
manifest something you expect lightning speed results right now like tomorrow I
want to manifest a few thousand dollars tomorrow it’s gonna happen tomorrow
today you have to stop focusing on the timing it’s not up to you when the
universe is going to deliver something to you just trust in the divine timing
that the universe will deliver to you what you want in the right time when
it’s meant to come to your reality when it’s meant to happen for you things
can’t happen for you unless it’s the right timing so for example if you’re
after a relationship and you’re constantly wondering when this person’s
gonna come into your life it’s not up to you to figure that out the universe will
deliver this person at the right time at the right moment just trust that the
universe has the right time you don’t know what you don’t know you don’t know
if it’s the right time in your life you might feel like you’re ready for
something but you’re not and like I said it always goes back to mindset you have
to be in the right mindset to perceive something so a lot of the times the
universe won’t deliver something in the right time until you have the right
mindset that’s why you always start with your mindset and your belief system your
mindset in your belief system set up all your results it’ll set up everything
else for you stop worrying so much about the timing and as long as you have a
strong belief that what you want is already yours and you’re not focusing on
lack at all all you have to do is trust the timing it’s not up to you to control
the timing as long as you firmly believe and affirm that it’s yours
it will happen don’t worry about the time it’s not up to you one of the best
affirmations you can say is I trust the divine timing take it off your own
shoulders it’s not up to you to control let the universe do it saying sit back
and surrender surrendering is another big important factor when it comes to
using the law of attraction and manifesting I know there’s a lot of
steps and a lot of information but trust me if you get all of these right things
will manifest into your life much quicker and easier and one of these
things I guarantee you is probably holding you back at this very second so
the sooner you can recognize it the sooner you can turn it around so when it
comes to surrendering I also have a video about this I’ll link it down below
and link it here sorry for all the links I just want
to share with you all the knowledge so if one of these things is holding you
back you can find out more but surrendering is so important and it goes
hand in hand with timing once you do all of the steps once you’ve focused on your
belief system and gotten clear on what your beliefs are and getting clear on
what you want to manifest and once you make sure that you’re not focusing on a
place of lack and standing in your own way and after you decide to trust the
timing it’s time to surrender I always say don’t surrender until you fully
believe it’s yours once you fully believe it’s yours it’s so much easier
surrender I always say you wouldn’t ask for something you already have so once
you’ve done all these steps stop asking and surrender and Trust the timing they
go hand in hand surrender and Trust the timing it’s no longer up to you you
can’t make anything happen trust the universe to deliver what you need when
you need it the law of attraction is a law and it’s not something you can
control all you can do is follow the steps and
make sure you’re not blocking it once you’ve acknowledged all of these steps
you should be in alignment being in alignment simply means matching your
thoughts behaviors and actions it’s basically thinking from and acting
like the version of yourself that already has what it is that you want how
would you behave how would you think how would you act think of it in those
simple terms alignment brings things into your reality I always say where
your mind goes the universe shows if you agree with me leave me a comment below
where your mind goes the universe shows while you’re at it give this video a
thumbs up if you’re enjoying it so far trust me I get it I’ve been studying the
law of attraction for well over a decade and I know how frustrating it can be
when you’re trying to manifest something and it’s just not happening for you I
work with clients every single day to get their breakthroughs when it comes to
manifesting and these are the biggest issues I see that come up when
something’s not working so your belief system focusing on lack letting go of
the timing surrendering and being aligned will all be factors that
determine how quickly and how efficiently you can
things into your life which one of these things are you struggling with I would
say the most common one is probably lack and I think guilty of it too you feel
like you followed all the right steps and you want to manifest something and
then you’re just sitting there like waiting and praying and hoping it’ll be
there and waiting and praying and hoping and that like I said is actually
blocking it from you because you just have to believe it’s yours and surrender
simplify your manifesting process but like I said at the very beginning of
this video start with your belief system if you
don’t fully truly believe that you can have something it won’t manifest into
your life you have to have complete unwavering faith so until you get there
keep journaling keep meditating keep writing things down and keep figuring
out how you can get your belief system turned around to believe that what you
want is already yours everything you’re trying to manifest will happen at
different speeds at different times it’s all up to the universe and the right
timing all you can do is be in alignment and trust that what you want is already
yours and get out of your own way the universe always provides the law of
attraction is always working just trust the process and try not to get
frustrated it’s always going to be an ongoing project you are consciously
creating your life and that is a powerful thing to realize so enjoy that
control make it fun and enjoy every second of your manifesting process I
really hope you enjoyed today’s video if you did be sure to give it a thumbs up
leave me a comment below I read every single one and I love hearing from you
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video so you won’t miss anything and as always be sure to visit my website MK
magic mindset comm you can find tons of Law of Attraction resources and if you
really want to dive deeper into your mindset work I have my course abundance
Academy and there’s mindset workbooks in there and lots of really good stuff so
be sure to check it out as well I will see you next time
you

100 thoughts on “WHY THE LAW OF ATTRACTION ISN’T WORKING FOR YOU | How to Fix It!

  1. Mary Kate I am grateful to have found your website. I have recently found The Law of Attraction. I'm still inspired by this law.
    My subconscious has mired my life. I'm convinced that the past programming has to be gone and your videos make perfect sense to me and are helping me accomplish this and further my understanding of The Law of Attraction. Thank you for being you. Scott A.

  2. It's always working, its maybe just not working for them, the title kinda suggests it doesnt work sometimes love the video though, i have seen my thoughts come true I didnt learn about this I experienced it first!! My worries arrived, when I thought about them but when I became determined for change and focussed on it good things came, I was blown away, i see patterns on things and my life definitely is an outcome of what I've been worrying g or dreaming about, now I try n stick to dreaming 😉

  3. The Law is always working, you naturally create in every moment. Start focusing on the good and watch how good things easily manifest

  4. LOA regarding health so tricky to feel as ‘I’m healthy’ when symptoms stronger. All manifesting videos (watched for 6 months) material things not health
    Thank you for ur videos first I’ve watched your channel

  5. I try my best to not think of lack ,be appreciative,show gratitude,say I am affirmation,but I need to know if I am visualizing correctly, if I am blocking myself,how to surrender, what do I do?do I need a professional coach?

  6. I do know that everything I have ask it is already happened and it is mine I am so grateful for everything I have and will have I lack nothing God has promised me and it will happen

  7. Thank you Mary Kate, I'm glad I found your channel. Super grateful, your explanations are so clear and helpful 🙏

  8. 1. Unwavering faith that it’s already yours.
    2. Can’t focusing on it not being their yet .
    3. Divine timing you can’t expect lightning speed. the universe will deliver it at the right time.
    4. Let go of the expected date focus.

  9. This is so true and I’m working on faith like this. For some reason the more my faith grows the more opposite come in my reality.

  10. I’ve never had the law attraction work for me, life just feels meaningless and I’m walking around without any sort of purpose in life

  11. Stop focusing on luck. It’s all about belief system. Thank you Mary, I learned something new in this video! 🙏

  12. If it ain't working it's because you don't have all the ingredients to the chocolate cake when you are baking it.

  13. How do u feel if you already have it?

    If you FEEL it, you already HAVE IT
    THERE IS NO DIFFERENCE between feeling and reality for Universe, therefor it's given to you BY LAW

    Also, if you love yourself there is only Love..cause the inter reality is just a mirror of your inner FEELINGS

  14. What if you can't stop thinking about what your trying to manifest? Like I belive its mine but when I get excited I can't help it. Is that also lack?

  15. It has been over 10 years that I've been waiting for this man to show up what do you have to say about that?

  16. Hi Mary.. I heard this before like believe you already have it, but you explain so clearly N understanding… Thank you for sharing this video..😀😀

  17. Where your mind goes or flows the universe shows! 🌠 Good reminder that you wouldn't keep asking for something you already have!!
    Thanks!

  18. Love your beautiful attitude Thank you and you are right it’s focusing on lack and I am lotting my Big Sister’s negativity influences me

  19. I feel like I am having a hard time in just about everything. I am trying to manifest a person to come back into my life and so far I have seen little clues that it's working but then it's like it's not working anymore. I am journaling, meditating, and trying to work on my belief system but I feel like I have hit a wall.

  20. Okay so I would LOVE some HELP!!! With some CLARITYY please And thank you 🙏:) I just graduated theatre school. And let me tell you besides that – everything that my life has been has been incredible. I mean I went from being homeless for years, an abusive upbringing and relationships etc – to gaining a scholarship and working on some really cool projects which I’m so so so grateful for!

    I am wanting to manifest two things – first is Projects that are longer term and higher paid. HOW do I visualise for this? when I don’t know which specific project there will be?

    My BIGGER QUESTION is on SURRENDER. Here it is – I had a little audition for a role that is sooo similar to my life story. It feels so perfect / makes so much sense to get to do it because I feel such a deep affinity and comfort with the character. This persons story is based around sport and in my life – incidentally – that specific sport got me through my toughest time. The project is scheduled to start around fall. I haven’t heard anything back yet but worked really hard on my prep and submission to them. In terms of SURRENDERING – do I apply for other jobs that come along as a form of surrender? Do I quit visualising? I really believe I can have it. sometimes it crosses my mind and I visualise about it – about getting the email, the call, being on my way over to do the job, meeting those working on it etc . Other times unfortunately I worry about whether I should keep the time free in terms of applying for other jobs but this seems counter intuitive to LOA but I’m not sure

    Sorry for the essay. I would really appreciate clarity on these situations of surrender. Thank you so much!! 🙏✨💛💛💛

  21. Very positive and true information. I will start doing all of this to manifest what I believe I already have, thank you so much!

  22. Thank you so much for this video. I really needed to see this. I was focused on lack not even knowing about it. It’s time to surrender.

  23. I beleave you can feel it inside when you want it bad ..positive thought smile enjoy life .trust in yourself no who you are what you deserve ..😊😊😊

  24. Omg haha I think a few people are manifesting you looking at some comments ….Yeah your a hotty good on ya .can see your positive attitude on your face ..you glow.

  25. LOA doesn't work for me because I can't simply turn beliefs on and off like a switch. According to LOA, manifestation requires firm and unwavering faith; and yet, I'm a firm believer that faith can be about literally anything, and therefore in many cases it is actually BS. "Faith can move mountains"…. no, it literally can't, nor can it cure blindness or make you fly; and so many times faith is actually a denial of how reality works. So, I'm stuck on that. LOA is a "law"… like gravity; but at least gravity can be consistently demonstrated. LOA doesn't seem like as strong a law.

  26. I assume what your saying makes perfect sense but I have no idea what you just said.
    I literally can't concentrate.

    YOU ARE TO FREAKN GORGEOUS !

    Update: I had to put the phone down and just listen.
    It turns out you are as smart as you are GORGEOUS.

    Great advice..an eye opener. Thank you

  27. I have a mindset of me and my lover /SP whom I was with for 6 years being married so now I’m living in the end with my manifesting I’m doing but I feel I’m impatient and they say best things come to those that wait and I’m prepared to wait as I’ve never met anyone who comes close to this lady, I’ve known her for 28 years going back to when I was, I fancied her when I was 15 and I had her but she had to give up her life to look after her mum who’s 78 and was diagnosed with leukaemia 4 years ago any advice please , thank you god thank you Universe 🙏🙏

  28. I lost my job 7 months ago, for the 1st few months I told myself the Universe has a way better job for me and let it go. Now I am at a stage of lack and am not sure how to move past it. I didn't put time restrictions but I don't have limitless money to survive without employment. How do I not focus on lack.

  29. I went to a 7 2 11 store this morning. After purchasing my diet coke and corndog the cashier gave my change back. Haha. As I was putting my bills back into my wallet I noticed the number 8888 on a dollar bill. I been practicing law of attraction for 7 months now. I watched a lot of u tube videos, but after I watched your videos i came across that number.. Just wondering what that number means. Because that's like a random number I usually don't see.. I love to hear back from you. Thank you!😃

  30. I know that my ex (sp) is mine. When we see each other, he still not yet there to commit and the reality make me sad and creates doubts! Any suggestions how to don't let be discourage by the reality?

  31. I agree on what u said about strong beliefs. Accdg to abraham hicks we can't escape from our belief. Accdg to Neville Goddard we are God & God is our beautiful human imagination, heaven is within us.meaning we are the Universe. I'm a little confused when you say " we can't control the universe etc" agnes vivarelli and abraham hicks says We dont get what we want but we get what we are. The universe is just photocopying whatever we send to them in other words we are a focus based universe. And you also say the universe does not discriminate (agree) coz in agnes and Abraham's version of that is there is no big guy up above sitting watching us and gives us rewards when we do good or punish us when we do wrong…there is none. So you are sometimes separating us from the universe when we are the universe. And yes it is up to us in making it happen once you are in an alignment or the tap in tune in turn on vibration then we are close to the manifestation. Once we put a little doubt on ourself then we are holding on handbrake and that stops or slow down the manifestation. So there is no perfect timing it is the alignment and the feeling of less resistance that allow the manifestation & we experience it in our reality.

  32. You mentioned continuing scripting. I script as if I already have it. But I should stop asking? Did I get that right? Thanks!

  33. Thank you so much Mary Kate! I believe the universe has led me to your channel. I’ve been having trouble figuring out how to tune into the LOA. Your simple yet profound words of wisdom is the solution. I will keep you posted with my progress.

  34. We talk about belief systems..about how you must have complete faith ..but how do you believe, absolutely that you have something that you do not? It's like telling yourself a lie which also goes against belief? Thanks Virgil

  35. My beliefs are strong and are growing. Thanks for your knowledge ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍😘😘🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  36. I’m new to your channel and I didn’t know I was focusing on lack and complaining why it hadn’t come yet. Thank you for helping me realize this. 😊❤️

  37. hi Mary, I am new to this channel and to the concept of loa…. I need your help in understanding this concept and applying it personally. I need your assistance.

  38. Yes don't dwell on timing, my manifestations took three years, and I manifested everything I imagined. Having this in mind, I'm manifesting bigger and better things right now

  39. I’m a 54 year old man looking for some help in this area. I suffer from depression and I’m looking to beat this terribly problem. My situation is at a pretty desperate level at this point in the financial department. Thank you for your video it’s much appreciated. I’m hoping to secure a support system to help me through this as I had a tragedy happen last year that has left me in terrible pain and unable to work. Let me if this is something that your willing to help with. Needing a good friend and support system. I know I have to change me but I’m struggling while trying to do that. Thanks in advance. I’ll leave a link so you can get to know my circumstances.

    Facebook.com/donthelawnman

  40. That's all fine and good , but I'm a long haul over the road truck driver ,keeping a journal of my thoughts is out of the question.

  41. You have right ,one time is very easy and quick,but some wishes they are not,but any way when I let it go it’s show up very precisely,like how is that possible!! Beyond our mind…

  42. Doesn't work coze.. simple is not a Law. ….It works for some one .. And it doesn't work for someonelse. …mening that we are all different…..
    So we all react in a different Way to situatiuons. ..simple as that….Believe it or not This is the reality

  43. I am trying to manifest a job, but I don’t know what kind of job Im exactly looking for. I know I want it to be early morning and not to far from home. So I have been praying and manifesting about it. I manifest getting up early and not driving to far, but I pray and tell the Universe I trust you to put me in a position where I can grow and strive. Think this is ok???

  44. Maybe a person should start appreciating who and what they are as a brilliant being that you yourself created. As we are a beam of god we came here to experience everything that we are not there. We are perfect there so we created all the things that we don’t like so we can hide what we truly are. So once you realize how brilliantly awesome you are with flaws you can appreciate those flaws and then they can be formed into what you really want. Don’t blow this off without a few mins thinking about this.

  45. Thank you so much for this video! You really explained well! My favorite part is the BELIEF in that you wouldn’t ask for something if you already had it…. thank you!! 😊🙏🏼

  46. Thank you Mary Kate I believe everything you say and I know the things I manifest will come to me soon because I believe. God bless

  47. Thank you!!! This has really helped me realise where I was going wrong, your steps were very clear ♥️ x

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